Tokyo is truly a city like no other on the planet. And it’s one I find myself returning to (and daydreaming about) over and over. Whether you’re traveling lavishly or a balling on more of a budget, this is a city that truly needs to be seen to be believed.
If there’s one phrase I would use to describe Tokyo, it would be a “beautiful contradiction.” The city exists at the intersection of ultra-modern and ancient—and feels almost electrified with drama at every step. It’s a place where you’ll find all the latest street trends and cutting edge tech alongside traditional details that look straight out of a history book. This is a place where it’s not unusual to see a woman dressed in meticulous Geisha garb with the latest iPhone in hand, or where straight-off-the-Prada-runway heels get kicked off before a traditional tea ceremony.
I’ve compiled my jetsetter-approved tips and luxe tidbits on why Tokyo gets my passport stamp of approval. Read on.
Pro Tips
Travel like a pro.
Tokyo has two major airports, Narita (NRD) and Haneda (HND). And trust me, you’ll want to fly in and out of Haneda whenever possible. Haneda is only 13 miles from the center of the city and will take you about 40 minutes by car (a taxi will run you about $100, or ￥11,000). Public transit will take you approximately the same amount of time but for a fraction of the cost, if you’re willing to navigate (taxis in Tokyo come with literal white glove service and are infamously expensive, but well worth it if you ask me!). You can find nonstop flights from the US to both Narita and Haneda airports, but go with Haneda (to save time and spare the headache).
Tokyo faux pas
The Japanese culture is quite proper, and no one eats or drinks unless they’re seated in the appropriate setting. So, resist the urge to dive into your handmade fresh strawberry mochi until you’re back at your hotel room. Although the Japanese are nothing if not polite, there’s no quicker way to look like a tourist than eating on the go.
Culture Cliff’s Notes
Upon first glance, the Japanese may appear rather stoic, or come across as less-than-friendly. This is absolutely not the case… the culture is just a bit more reserved. Whenever I go to Tokyo, I almost immediately find myself naturally speaking softer and just generally adopting a more relaxed pace. The Japanese are highly detail oriented and take their time when it comes to service. From hotel check-in to wrapping your purchases or taking your dinner order, things may take a bit longer than you’re used to. Take it all in, relax, and save your rush for when you land back at LAX.
Where to Stay
Tokyo is full of some of the most amazing hotels in the world, but honestly, it’s hard to find a “bad” hotel at any price range. The Japanese take such pride in their cleanliness and presentation, and this definitely extends to hotels.
Insider tip: The Japanese government has pretty strict regulations on the amount of days per year a property can be rented out… so budget-friendly Airbnbs are super hard to come by (your best bet is definitely a hotel). Also your hotel concierge is a huge asset to utilize while planning your meals and reservations (which should be done in advance, ideally right when you book your trip).
Here are a few of my very favorites:
What to Do
There is so much to see and do and take in while in Tokyo. But as an insider who’s been there (and done it ALL), here are the activities that always make my Tokyo bucket list.
Animal Cafes
Ok, I know it may sound a little “basic,” but especially if it’s your first time to Tokyo, you need to experience this dose of cuteness. From owls to miniature pigs and hedgehogs, whatever your favorite furry animal is, I can almost guarantee you that there’s a Tokyo cafe dedicated to it. Your Instagram followers will thank you.
Where to Eat
One of the best things about Tokyo is that literally *everything* is artisanally made and delicious (as in “OMG this is seriously the best [insert whatever you’re eating] I’ve ever had!”). Yes, there are some exclusive, expensive restaurants that you should absolutely visit if you have the means (more on that later). But in all honesty, I’ve found myself just as blown away by ramen you order in a stall as I have been by the ones that have a Michelin star. The department store food courts are also a great place to stop by because they offer a wide variety of quality Japanese fare all in one place!
Where to Play
If you know me, you know I typically love a good party. But when I’m in Tokyo, my nightlife scene is definitely a bit more mellow (unless late night strolls to walk off food comas count?). For this, I have consulted some of my most trusted fellow Tokyo lovers and here are some must-stop places if you are looking to party:
Japan is pretty serious about its bar scene, but that doesn’t mean their clubs aren’t equally amazing. 1 OAK (Minato), Oath (Shibuya), and The Iron Fairies (Ginza) all come highly recommended from those in the know.